The Silent Slide Into Self-Abandonment

Self-abandonment doesn't announce itself. It slides in disguised as tension in your shoulders. As conversations where you leave yourself out — Stacey Herrera Have you ever noticed how exhaustion settles into your bones long before you realize you’ve neglected yourself? How conversations flow where you nod and agree but never truly share your own thoughts? Self-abandonment is rarely loud. It doesn’t knock on the door and demand your attention—it creeps in quietly, disguised as obligations, people-pleasing, and the slow erosion of boundaries. Recognizing the Subtle Signs Self-abandonment wears many masks: - Saying "yes" when you long to say "no." - Shrugging off discomfort in relationships to keep the peace. - Silencing your voice out of fear of judgment. - Putting your needs last under the guise of responsibility. - Harsh self-criticism that drowns out self-compassion. Over time, these patter...