What did I learn today? Lessons on the Journey to Unconditional Self Love

It is an act of self-love to stop hanging on to the way you think it is supposed to be . Susan Jeffers author of Feel the Fear and Do it Anyway Yesterday I was having a fight in my head about what is supposed to be happening in my life right now. I am supposed to be more successful blah blah blah. This conversation in my head was going on for about ten minutes and then as what usually happens I become aware and I say to myself wait, what am I thinking here and as magic a message will be delivered from the Universe. So just as I was having that inward battle I was introduced to this woman who was literally on her death bed, they were ready to turn off the machine that she was hooked up to, and she survived. She had cancer which had spread throughout her body and the doctors told her there is nothing more than they can do for her and she would not even last throughout the night. She said right there when they said I would not last through the night I decided that I want to live! ...

"Greatness is contagious...You'll catch it if you get around it." —Bishop T.D. Jakes I've learnt that it is very important who you surround yourself with and to believe in yourself! Many times people around you give you advice and truth be told they, most times, give it with true love and concern for you but I have learnt that people who have't walk the walk cannot give you directions to the park! If you never took a risk, pursue a dream, movd out of your comfort zone how do you know? Most times its coming from a safe zone and far less for the naysayers, its mediocrity encouraging mediocrity! I've also learnt that it is important to beleive in yourself one of my mottos is beleive in yourself or who's gonna? Dream for yourself or who's gonna? So what did I learn today? I  should believe in myself. When I have an original thought, I should embrace it and make it known to others rather than reject it simply because it is my own and therefore unw...

It is not nearly so important how well a message is received as how well it is sent. You cannot take responsibility for how well another accepts your truth; you can only ensure how well it is communicated. And by how well, I don't mean merely how clearly; I mean how lovingly, how compassionately, how sensitively, how courageously, and how completely . Neale Donald Walsh author of Conversations with God I am so in love with the Universe! It communicates with me so well that love is the only emotion I can describe for the care that the Universe extends to me! Yesterday I wanted to tell a friend of mine something and as I was sitting down thinking and asking myself OK what is my intention for communicating this piece of information I decided to give it some time and do some reading. What would be the first thing I would put my hands on? The quote above! How awesome is that? I cannot take  responsibility for how well another accepts my truth, my responsibility is to communicate lov...

Everything you try to avoid about yourself will keep playing out insidiously in your life. This creates the perfect opportunity for you to embrace, love and heal this part of yourself . Melanie Tonia Evans Author and women's self empowerment teacher Today it just dawned on me I have been on this new life path for a year now. Last year I packed up "everything" and took a leap of faith and here I am one year later. It's been quite a ride! I have spent a lot of time with myself, literally. There were days that I just spent time with myself, thinking, learning, questioning. And I would not change a single thing. I've learnt soooooo much over the past year, been to quite a few countries and met some phenomenal women and people. I learnt about receiving with grace, about miracles, they actually do happen! who my real friends are, I have some awesome awesome buddies! I've learnt about spirituality, how positive thinking and affirmations work, what  are my non-n...

You’re the most important meaning maker in your life. You determine the meaning that comes from something; it then becomes a reality to you. Choose a meaning that makes you more effective. Tony Robbins Best selling author   When you are all over the place it seems that its difficult to get things done! I have learnt that for me its best to put all of my energy into one thing, do it well and then move on to the next task! When there is no order, there is no clarity and things fall through the cracks. Order, I have also learnt is a spiritual principle, it gives structure to life. Without structure there is chaos!    So What did I learn today? As of NOW it’s all about F.O.C.U.S: Focus (on my intention) Open (my heart) Create (my vision) Understand (that all is well) and Surrender ( to the process) , according to Deepak Chopra “ Now is the moment that never ends”. Peace!!

Subtract from your thoughts those things that are unnecessary and unproductive. Surrender everything that could be harmful to yourself or another. Eliminate every thought or emotion that does not bring more peace, joy or love into your experience. Iyanla (a boss teacher!!!) I'm on a train from Coventry to Manchester this morning and I am reading a book called Tapping the Power Within and its just throwing out some home truths to me in a way that is touching my soul!!! The whole premise is about affirming what you desire and speaking from your power. I've learnt that Power is YOU and the only time you don't have power is when you BELIEVE that you don't have it! Call forth the thing you desire and make sure that your behaviour is in alignment with what you call forth! How many times have we said we want something or don't want something and we act totally contrary to what we say we want or don't want? Confusing the Universe, that's what I'm doing whe...

We cannot be of service to humanity if we continue to allow others to pull us down into the lower vibrational energy of confusion, chaos, denial, limited beliefs, addiction and drama. We need to pull ourselves out of denial and be really honest with ourselves and ask if our current relationships are based on love or fear. If they are based in fear, you will need to love yourself enough to disengage from anything that is dis-empowering and does not serve your highest good. E xpaned Consciousness I have been paying attention to the whispers of my Intuition and to the Universe, I've learnt that the Universe doesn't censor what we say it just responds and this is why it is important that we choose our words wisely and speak from our power not our fear and limited beliefs. I have been looking at the relationships in my life which ones are based out of fear and I've learnt that when your ego runs things these relationships continue until the lesson becomes a tough one. I ask...