February is the Journey to Surrender

 


Dear February 

I  Surrender:

-   Limited beliefs that no longer serve me - what are you still believing in that keeps you stuck, unhappy, doubting yourself, focusing on others? Ask yourself the tough questions and then surrender it all.

-   People pleasing - surrender the need, the craving for everyone to like you. Focus on liking yourself and creating healthy boundaries

-   Shame & Guilt for resting & self-care - how many of us want to finish the tasks, do the work in front of us at the expense of our health, well being and peace of mind?

-   Blaming others & not taking  responsibility for my choices - sometimes, we mess up! own it. Helps in making decisions and forgiving ourselves.

- Outdated status quo beliefs - the status quo sometimes keeps us from moving forward and doing something new and different. 

-  Self-doubt - Don't let the doubt fool you.

- Judging others, Judging self - February is a call to release the judgement of self 

-  Expired relationships - the ones you know are done however you keep rehashing them in your mind or even in person. 

- Tolerating nonsense & bad behaviour of self & others - what are you tolerating in your life that you know must be surrendered? 

- The illusion that I can control that every outcome - do everything that you can, then surrender the rest, God's will be done.

- Fixing others, fixing "it", Fixing the "situation" 

- Acceptance of what is 

What are you surrendering to this on your Journey?

Peace 


Akosua's Books

Nyabo (Madam) Why Are You Here?

Now What? The Flipside

What Did I Learn Today? Lessons on the Journey to Unconditional Self Love

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