Journey to Authenticity

 Being totally identified with the need to be right is the main cause of  conflict in relationships, we do not create more harmony by convincing others of what is right but mainly by being in harmony with ourselves so we don't have to make others wrong to be at ease - Evolve Daily


As we journey towards authenticity, an extremely important lesson I have learned is letting go of the need to be right all the time, letting go of the need to, letting go of the need to  prove that I know, and to make others feel that they know very little - we say it here "put people in their place" 

One of the markers on the path which led me to reflecting on why I felt the need to be right or prove others wrong came from seeing a line in the Course of Miracles that says "Do I want to be right or do I want to be happy?" I interpreted this to mean that if proving  that others are wrong leads into strife and no peace then is it worth it to be right? Is there a real need to prove to anyone that we are right or that we know? The truth needs no defence. 

When we know who we are and feel comfortable in that space, the need to prove, to show off to others what we know and our worth is gone. Happiness will not depend only on what others think of you.

Harmony comes from the knowledge that all is well and all will be well. It comes from knowing that we have free will to choose again and to take every day every opportunity with grace.

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For 2021, the Journey to Unconditional Self Love begins with Authenticity.

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