Your Clarity is like an Amour

 Notice how certain people will spin out of control when they can't figure a way to hook you, control you or get in your head. Your clarity is like a suit or amour against the behaviors of those who are accustomed to being able to make other pawn in their games. Maryam Hasnaa

Control is an addiction. Humans love to be in control, it makes us feel safe, we make up stories that allow  us to believe that we are in control when many times we are not even close, its all an illusion.

We go out of our way to control situations, people and events. When we believe that we are not in control or losing control, we get out of control. People literally lose their mind.

Many times we over analyze, ask questions and act as if we don't trust the process. Trusting the process allows us to let go of control. Trusting the process comes with trusting yourself. Trusting yourself comes from doing the inner work. It is a process.

I have learned that surrender and letting go takes courage. It seems to others that those who practice  the art of trust, surrender and letting go may come across as laid back or detached. Gone is the need to ask a million questions, to micro manage the process or to blame and shame. The work is put in and the process is trusted.

Peace

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