Transformation starts with a Decision

Transfiguration is all about becoming something new, on all levels. Day after day, you'll feel yourself changing. At times, with no one present to witness your growth, it just happens. Like a tree releasing a leaf, you simply let go of what no longer serves you. Lalah Delia

I look at my life now and sometimes it surprises me. The life that I led a few years ago seems so completely removed from where I stand now. It really is true that change is the only constant.

In hindsight, what I have learnt is that transformation is a decision. I decided that I wanted to live a peaceful life.

That was the start. I wanted to live in peace. to stop overthinking, over analyzing, looking for proof that I was doing the right thing, that I was making the best decisions. All of those thoughts felt like a war in my head.

Thedecision to live in peace led me to another decision, I wanted to live in love and service.
How that was to happen I had zero clue! I decided and showed up with an open mind and a willing spirit.

There is no mystery in transformation, only an intention, a committment and a firm recognition that change is desired.
Let me tell you, it was challenging because many times the decisions made during this transformation went completely against the status quo or what was considered normal.
Leaving a "good job", selling assets, traveling to new places, and the list goes on and on seemed to people that cared about me that my own transformation was one of going from sane to insane.

My life was based on applying a formula that did not work for me. The habitual pattern was self sabotaging. I was scared to delve into the unknown.
Transforming was a decision.As with every way forward, it starts with a firm belief and a choice.
Once the decision is made, press on with committment, persistence and determination and watch how it all transforms

Peace




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