The Healing Process

We are creatures of comfort, and we also don’t like to go against the belief systems of the tribe. Complacency, placing blame on others so we don’t have to accept responsibility for our own life, believing in a savior outside of ourselves because we do not see our selves as worthy or powerful, “blindly” choosing to accept the ideas of others without seeing how we feel in our own heart, the inability to speak up and tell others how we truly feel out of fear of confrontation, and the fear of being alone all contribute to the “following of the heard” mentality. Sabrina Reber

Healing takes time
Healing takes support
Healing takes acceptance
Healing takes forgiveness
Healing takes surrender
Healing takes release of ego
Healing takes pain and discomfort
Healing takes movement
Healing takes truth

Learnt all of that yesterday at the Brasso Seco meeting held with the villagers!

I went there with no expectations and boy was I in a space of healing! It was super emotional, crying, laughing and truth telling!

The villagers have lived through a nightmare of someone coming into their place and running amok doing some heinous crimes the likes of which the entire country hasn't seen in a while but they came together in hope with the aim of moving forward to heal themselves and their community, I felt so humbled to be a part of that experience it really really made my day! We move forward together!

Oh, the radio interview was nice as well, the hostess was lovely and made me feel like we were chatting in her front porch!
Life is nice, God's grace is so ever present!

Peace!!!

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