Where the magic happens- outside your comfort zone!


Live life fully while you're here. Experience everything. Take care of yourself and your friends. Have fun, be crazy, be weird. Go out and screw up! You're going to anyway, so you might as well enjoy the process. Take the opportunity to learn from your mistakes: find the cause of your problem and eliminate it. Don't try to be perfect; just be an excellent example of being human." - Anthony Robbins. Robbins is a best selling self help author, motivational speaker, and advisor to many world leaders and sports professionals


How do you feel when you are about to do something for the first time? Something that scares the bejesus out of you? so much so that you've found reasons, infact not reason but excuses to prolong doing it? Procrastinating I've learnt is a form of fear! This feeling of fear I've learnt is to use as an ally not an enemy. If your dreams don't get you butterflies in your stomach it's not big enough. Do something so awesome that when you've done it, it blows your mind. I've learnt that we're designed for greatness, no excuses, no apologies! Many times we pause in fear because of what we believe other people will say, what they will think, that whole external validation thing comes to the surface! I've learnt that when you make a decision and you're at peace, it is usually the right one for you!

So what did I learn?

Live your life like nobody is watching you. Live beyond expectations. Live beyond what you have been told is right, wrong, good or bad. Just for one day, live like you are totally free to be anything and do anything you choose for yourself. Let yourself be exactly who you are and live like it is okay -- because it really is. Peace!!
p.s. I am travelling over the next few days so will check in with you when I can so until then thank you for all the support, comments, eyeballs, shares!! Will touch base soon!
Peace and Love!!
 



 

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