Ask yourself why has a piece of you abandoned you?
If we set aside any
ego investment in the situation, then only love will flow though us, and it
will be expressed in a form that would be appropriate in that specific
situation. ACIM
the only relationship you ever have is the
one you are having with yourself. Other people show up in your life as a demonstration
of how you are being, what you are believing and how you are behaving with yourself, within yourself. I also know
that people come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime.
Lifetime
relationships are those bound by blood lines such as parents, siblings and
those with who you bring children to life. So, it is not clear to me that one
person is meant for another person unless their is a reason for them to be
together; in the season they are meant to be together.
As we deepen and become
more present in the relationship with ourselves, we attract people, who can
give us more of who we are. At the physical and intellectual levels of being,
it is easy to believe that there is one person with whom you are meant to spend
your time and living. If or when that person chooses not to be in relationship
with you any longer, we can get stuck in the belief that they were the one and
will always be the one.
The issue in that case is why has a piece of you
abandoned you? Or, more appropriately, what part of you have you abandoned? , everything
is the way it needs to be. So, if someone you love leaves your life, even if
for a while, it is exactly what needs to happen. The choice to wait for their
return or, as you say, circling back, is a choice that you will need to make
for yourself, within yourself. I for one neither choose to wait or be weighted
down by waiting
Peace
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