I can't help you,not really...
I can’t help you. Not really. I can only show up with a bright heart and hope that I get you at the right micro-moment with the perfect dose of light that helps you see what you already know. Danielle La Porte
You already know it, you do! Trust me, you do, you really really do
You know that the job is sucking you dry and that it is not on the road to you fulfilling your purpose
You know that you must not be sleeping with him or her, much less have a "relationship" with him or her
You know that that the extra chocolate bar you just ate was really extra extra extra
You know that you ought to be eating more balanced and exercising your butt
You know you must start saying no
You know you must start saying yes
You know you must to have "that" conversation
You know you must to let go of the guy who you "like" but who clearly don't like you (check the actions not the words)
You know you must be saving some dosh
You know you must believe in yourself
You know you must just be yourself.every.single.time
and yet you look for "help"
Look in the mirror babee, start there and see how the support starts coming from everywhere. Take a chance and start there